I’m Ginger. I’m 35 and have been married for 15 years. I have 2 children. My husband recently agreed to allow me to date other men. It’s a long story I don’t want to get into. Let’s just say it was a mutual agreement.
I spent a few weeks trying to decide on who I was going to date if anyone. I searched the swing ads and the dating ads online until I came across one particular ad that caught my eye.
His name is David and I have to tell you, he is black. I didn’t know how my husband was going to react but he took it well. He told me it was my decision. I’ll tell you now, he’s not interested in watching anything.
I decided to meet David on a weekend our kids would be at their grand parents. My husband took a lot of pictures of me as I showered and dressed for my first date. I had Karen post a few here on the site.
I can’t tell you how nervous I was when David showed up at the door that evening. I introduced him to my husband and we were soon on our way. We had a nice dinner and went dancing that evening.
I hadn’t planned anything to happen that night. At least that’s what I told my husband. I was kind of excited about being out with a strange man. A black man. Things started getting intimate later on the dance floor and we finally kissed.
I was always looking over my shoulder for someone that knew me and my husband. What would I tell them? Anyway, I was safe and we arrived at his place around ten that evening. He fixed us a couple drinks and we sat talking.
We got cozy and started kissing. I’m not going to tell all the details but things were heating up. David’s hands were all over me and we were soon getting naked in his bedroom.
I never had sex with another man since I’ve been married. That was fifteen years ago! David was gentle and took his time. We finally got back to my place around one in the morning. The house was dark. David kissed me goodnight and said he’d call me.
I remember getting undressed and hearing my husband laying in our bed. What was I supposed to tell him? He’s want to know every little detail. I remember how my husband touched me when I got into bed that night.
We had wild sex and just talked until five in the morning. My husband was glad for me and wanted to know if I planned on seeing David again. I told him we’d talk about it and we did that week.
I have another date planned at the end of the month with David. Perhaps I’ll write and tell you more details next time.
Love Ginger
